One of my really good friends is due in May. She was one of the people I bitched to when I found out my 36 year old cousin was pregnant without issue. My friend’s baby shower is coming up soon. She made it clear that I didn’t have to attend, she knew that it would be super awkward. But I said I’d go. While I don’t like social gatherings with people I don’t know, I do love my friend, and absolutely want to support her.
I have been scouring her baby registry. Part intrigue, part judging (I can’t help it – I’m very judgemental). I decided I was going to buy her some of the bottles, and teething toys she registered for, but of course I also had to impose my own opinions, so I also bought her a Comotomo bottle, and Milkies.
Of course, I could’ve ordered all of this online. But nope! I decided I wanted to go to the baby stores! Yes, plural, because the Comotomo was a few dollars cheaper at another store. I was excited to visit the stores. I’ve also been researching strollers, and this friend had told me that my beloved Stokke is too tall for us shorties. So I took this opportunity to go check it out for myself.
I didn’t want any attention from the sales associates, so I just went straight to the bottles section and picked up what I needed. I figured, this way, when I start browsing at other things, they’ll know I’m just browsing, since I already have what I need. It was an interesting experience being in the store. There were multiple couples with their bumps, looking at strollers (I really wanted to give them my opinion on strollers! lol) and other essentials, and a family with a toddler looking at furniture for a big boy bed. I walked around the strollers a couple times, I didn’t dare pull them out to test them. I was there for maybe 20 minutes. Surprisingly, I didn’t get that sad, I was more hopeful than anything. When I felt the tears starting to well up, I made a bee-line for the cashier, paid and got out.
Why do I do this to myself?
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You are an amazing friend!! I wish I had your courage. Instead, I have become wonderful at giving gift cards to babies r us because I can buy the gift cards at the grocery store.
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Awww. Thank you!!
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I’m so superstitious I can’t go in those stores right now!! 😉
5D5PDT, and I feel nothing other than a huge bloated stomach and occasional cramps which I attribute to the progesterone. This TWW is really quite cruel. 😩 I was pretty good at keeping myself busy today so that helped!! One week lady!! 👍
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Good luck!!!! I’m 2D5DPT. Well, transfer was on Saturday, so is today day 2, or day 3? I’m not sure.
My beta is on Monday. Sending you sticky vibes!!!! xoxoox
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You’re day two!! And Yes, our beta is the same day! You’re lucky you don’t have to wait as long as me! 12 day wait for me!!
Sticky thoughts to you too!!
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Oooh. Good to know. Sticky embies! Xoxo
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Well if you’re a masochist then so am I. I just finished crocheting a baby blanket for a coworker. An entire baby blanket.
Sending good thoughts your way for next week!!
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Thank you! I think blankets are amazing gifts! Babies can never seem to have enough!
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U are such an amazing friend. Not everyone can do such a nice gesture.
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Thank you Jojo!! Xo
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I did EXACTLY the same thing this weekend! We drove to the mall just to buy a baby shower gift I could easily buy online. My hubby was like-are you sure??!! I said yes, I have to feel the quality of the baby blanket first before we buy it. It’s the first time we have been in a baby only type store together. It was weird, we laughed about it, but mostly I was hopeful like you. I welled up a little when hubby went to toilet so he didn’t see 😉
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Lol. I wouldn’t dare go with my hubs. Is more sensitive than me. Haha
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I’m impressed that you could spend that much time IN the store. I’ll admit that I do a lot of online shopping. And I have to do it quickly. Like I get the announcement or the invitation, and I immediately buy the gift so the task is done. Because I will fall into the hole of staring at pictures for hours.
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I’ve been browsing online for years. I guess I’m a little desensitized to it. Lol.
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Wishing us both luck today!! I’m so nervous and I have been told i won’t get the call until later this afternoon!! 😩
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Good luck!!!!! I had to wait half an hour to get my blood drawn, and when I left, there was no one left waiting! I could’ve slept in an extra half hour!! lol
I won’t hear back until this afternoon either. I’m trying to stay busy and not worry about it. What’s done is done.
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Agree! I feel like I just turned in my final paper and I’m awaiting my grade. I offered the lab draw girl money to get me my results sooner. 😂😂
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Hahaha
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I saw your tweet!!! BFP for both of us!! 👍
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YAAAAAAAAAAAAAAY!!!! So happy for yooooou!!!!!! w00t w00t!
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And I’m stressing because my HCG is so high at 933 and I only put in one embryo!! I’m currently at Day 17 post retrieval. We will always find something to stress about. I too go back Wednesday!
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Oooh. I’m 14 days past. Maybe twinsies for you!!!!
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