I’m writing this on Sunday. As you’re reading this, I’m either in the procedure, or recovering. I’m excited, but I also feel a sense of dread. It feels like this is the beginning of the end, instead of the beginning.This whole time, I’ve just been focused on when I would be pregnant, and what my due date would be (Dec. 6th, 2015). But I haven’t given much thought as to how we got here, and how this will affect our chances. I’ve only been thinking about how healthy I am, and how the doctors and nurses say my numbers are great. But we’re here because of DH’s sperm, and also his chromosome abnormality. It doesn’t matter if I’m perfectly healthy. If the embryologist can’t find healthy sperm, then this is all for nothing. So what if they retrieve great eggs from me? None of this matters if my eggs don’t have a healthy partner. We chose not to do PGD/PGS because of cost, and also because of our conversation with the genetics counsellors. Because DH’s abnormality is on chromosome 1, it’s pretty much a fatal mutation. If an embryo makes it to day 5 to biopsy, chances are it’s a healthy embryo. Further, DH’s dad also has the same abnormality, and he’s had three children! What this tells us is that the abnormality may not be the reason for DH’s bad sperm. It could be related, but could be completely unrelated. I just feel defeated. I’m trying to be hopeful, but hope is on a vacation. Please pray for us!
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Definitely praying all goes well! Healthy spermy vibes to you today!!!!
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Thank you Nicole! I’m back home and recovering now.
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Sending you all my hope!!
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Thank you! I had a minor cry fest in recovery, but I’m home and on through now!
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Sending loads of hope your way!
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Thank you so much!
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Praying hard for you!!!
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Thank you so much! I’m back home and enjoying my couch time!
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Praying for you! Can’t wait to hear how the retrieval goes!
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Thanks Amie! We got 15 eggs! I’m lying on the couch with my heating pad now. I feel pretty good.
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yay!! That is wonderful news!!
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Sending you positivity and courage. All the best!
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Thank you so much!
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Sending good thoughts and prayers your way!
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Thank you Moira!
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I hope everything went well! And more importantly, I hope they find some super awesome sperm to make you a take home baby. xx
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Thank you! It went smoothly. They got 15 eggs! I’m hanging out on the couch now with my heating pad.
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Ah! Great news!! Fingers crossed for continued good news! x
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Was the retrieval quite painful!? I called today to be put on the cancellation list so hopefully we get in quickly
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Not at all! I had general anesthetic which was nice. I was bloated that day, and a little but the day after, but I’m all good now. I did also only drink Gatorade the first day, so no water. It was nasty, but I like to think that it helped. Lol
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Glad your feeling better! Thanks for putting my mind at ease!!!
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No problem!
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Good luck!! I’ll be thinking positive thoughts and sending them your way.
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Thank you!
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Sending lots of good thoughts for retrieval. But also for the transfer!
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Thank you Mel!
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Sending positive thoughts and prayers.
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Thank you!
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Hope it went well!!
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It did! I feel pretty good today! We retrieved 15 eggs!
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